How do You Regain Confidence after Leaving a Long Term Relationship?

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Thoughts in Relationships [How to Listen]

Where do thoughts come from? Generally from what we know, or think we know. They also come from what we make up. In reality they are magnetic impulses from the brain that we put interpretations to. Our own unique interpretations. Let’s consider the brain to be a muscle, like any other muscle. If we let…

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Unsettling Emotions of a Breakup

It seems like it’s never ending, this roller-coaster ride of emotions. One minute you are riding up the roller-coaster to a better place, and the next minute you are accelerating down at a rapid pace. It appears as though this roller-coaster has a starting point, yet no ending point in mind. It’s extremely unsettling and…

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Feelings? …… What’s that all about?

It is a medical fact that the physical responses we have for fear, and for humour, are the same… It is all in the interpretation. That is why some people love watching horror movies while others prefer to watch a good comedy, in reality they all have the same body sensations. So, who is responsible for…

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Saving My Relationship

There is one common thread in all your relationships. That common thread is in your relationships with your parents, your siblings, relatives, work colleagues and friends. It is also in every successful and every failed relationship. That common thread and dominating factor is the person in the mirror, that is right, it is You. So…

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Empathy in Relationships

Walk a mile in my shoes. Have you considered what you are like to live with? Are you ‘hard work’ or are you the perfect partner? What is it like living with you? As my wife once said to me “When I married Mr Right I did not think his middle name was Always” We…

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Will I ever find love again?

So currently you might be considering that the love you had within this previous relationship was it for you, and that you’ll never experience ‘the same love’ ever again? Never will anyone love you like the way they did, and you’ll never be able to love another person, like the way you loved them, right?…

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What Can I Do to Save My Relationship?

You could also ask what have I done, or have not done, to have my relationship be in the state that it is in at the moment? There are two areas to look at here. The first is the areas you have concerns over but zero influence, and the second is the areas you have concerns…

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How do You want Your Relationship to be Remembered?

How do You want Your Relationship to be Remembered? Consider the relationship you are in, if it were to suddenly end how would you review it? Would you say it was the best relationship you had where you gave it all and never held anything back? Or a relationship where you never quite revealed all…

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Responsibilty

Well the fact that you have come here tells me you are not willing to let your relationship just go. So the question I am going to ask is – “Are you willing to take responsibility for your relationship?” Now be careful what you read here. I said responsibility …. not blame or fault. Once…

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